Parents

Eyes on Aggressive behaviours (2)

« Both the environment and a child’s parents play a crucial role in reducing the frequency of aggressive behaviours after the age of 3. »

Coordinator:
Kristell Le Martret
Collaborators:
Isabelle Vinet (CPEQ) and Jean Gervais
Copy editor:
Kathe Lieber
Translation:
Donna Riley
Graphic design:
DesJardins Conception Graphique inc.

When should we be worried?

Published online October 4, 2007

What do we know?

  • A mother’s stress, the use of drugs, alcohol or tobacco during pregnancy, and problems at birth of the baby can lead to antisocial behaviours.
  • Both the environment and a child’s parents play a crucial role in reducing the frequency of aggressive behaviours after the age of 3.
  • Persistent aggressiveness in early childhood (after 3-4 years) can mean chronic adjustment problems in adolescence.
  • Aggressive behaviours are a chronic problem for a small number of children who use such behaviours (5 to 10%).
  • The seriousness and frequency of aggression are what set apart children who behave normally from children with a chronic behaviour problem.
  • Characteristics that you inherit from your parents can explain a lot about why certain children use more or less physical aggression in early childhood.
  • Extreme or inconsistent punishment encourages aggressive behaviours as much as any lack of discipline.
  • Friends’ rejection and problems with language contribute to the persistence of aggressive behaviours in children.
  • Grouping together children who have problems only makes their behaviour worse.
Paying attention to... what can be done?
...the frequency of aggressive behaviours.
  • Check whether the frequency of the aggressive behaviours is normal given the age of the child. (see Aggressive behaviours 1)
...the disciplinary approach adopted.
  • Avoid authoritarian and excessive punishments. (see Aggressive behaviours 1)
  • Develop the child’s sensitivity to others and his/her ability to control anger.

...the continuity of interventions made by different adults.

  • Work with other adults to have the same expectations and use consistent discipline.
...the supervision provided by adults.
  • Make sure there is enough supervision.
...the reactions of adults.
  • Check to see if the use of aggression is encouraged, excused or tolerated in the child’s environment.
...the reactions of other children.
  • Avoid putting children with behaviour problems in the same group.
...the organization of the living environment.
  • Check that the living environment is adapted to the child.
...other problems presented by the child.
  • See a professional in cases of language problems or rejection by friends or adult


Information

The Centre of Excellence for Early Childhood Development identifies and
summarizes the best scientific work on the social and emotional development
of young children. It disseminates this knowledge to a variety of audiences in
formats and languages adapted to their needs.

For a more in-depth understanding of aggression in early childhood, consult our
experts’ articles in the Encyclopedia on Early Childhood Development, available
free of charge at http://www.child-encyclopedia.com/.

This information sheet is published by the Centre of Excellence for Early Childhood
Development, one of four Centres of Excellence for Children’s Well-Being. Funding
for the Centres of Excellence for Children’s Well-Being is provided by the Public
Health Agency of Canada. The opinions expressed in this publication are those of
the authors/researchers and do not necessarily reflect the official views of the
Public Health Agency of Canada.

We are grateful to the Fondation Lucie et André Chagnon for its financial
contribution to produce this information sheet.

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